tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post1939517988419740198..comments2023-10-17T10:04:10.654-04:00Comments on Blackberries to Apples: Guest Blog: The Boys I Have DatedMeghanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08041411520313369470noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-29917931049727376602010-01-15T18:41:24.346-05:002010-01-15T18:41:24.346-05:00Lauren, I may be way off target here but I wonder ...Lauren, I may be way off target here but I wonder if the problem isn't that you suck at relationships, but that instead you are such an awesome girl that everyone who starts off wanting to be your lover ends up wanting to be your friend...I think that's quite a testament to you and a rare thing to find in someone (usually it is the other way around), although perhaps that observation doesn't help when it comes to matters of the heart.<br /><br />My advice? You need to find someone who loves you for you rather than someone who wants suck your energy dry because you make them feel good. In other words, someone who is more of a hipster than yourself, if such a thing is possible.<br /><br />I would offer my services but unfortunately I'm a square.Chris Goochhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14634227282244052213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-90047166737872258242010-01-15T12:38:24.970-05:002010-01-15T12:38:24.970-05:00I think every woman should make lists about exes. ...I think every woman should make lists about exes. Whether they're good or bad. It's often therapeutic or just plain enjoyable. <br /><br />Hannah, if you are talking about me, thank you. <br />I would love to think that but maybe I'm just a bitch and that's why people don't stick around. Who knows? ;)Hipstercritehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02168118598530462596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-7952812307791046862010-01-15T05:58:39.536-05:002010-01-15T05:58:39.536-05:00@Hannah: Not sure if this was meant for Lauren or ...@Hannah: Not sure if this was meant for Lauren or me, but... I can't speak for her, but what you said is a freakishly accurate description of my past loves.Meghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08041411520313369470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-9774372074675165032010-01-15T01:59:18.861-05:002010-01-15T01:59:18.861-05:00I see you as the kind of woman men fall in love wi...I see you as the kind of woman men fall in love with for so many different reasons (beauty being the most instantaneous), none of which encompass the totality of your personality.<br /><br />Is this accurate?<br /><br />(I loved this post.)hmla2599https://www.blogger.com/profile/13059799766743811221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-70086589361636973422010-01-13T16:12:00.264-05:002010-01-13T16:12:00.264-05:00I should make a list to get rid of some of my bagg...I should make a list to get rid of some of my baggage.Evahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11217271340928929622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-68661149183081861132010-01-13T16:05:49.632-05:002010-01-13T16:05:49.632-05:00It was such a whirl wind reading through this! I f...It was such a whirl wind reading through this! I felt very proud and independent in the beginning when you were putting those men down, but as it got a little more nasty I thought "wait! she's the one making the bad calls!" and sure enough you reflected on that same conclusion.<br />Nevertheless, we are constantly beating ourselves up about men and relationships no matter how great they ever really are! But you know what? Not fully knowing ourselves or other peeps, despite what dumb phsychiatrists may say, you need to have that mystery , or nothing would be fun.<br />Keep us posted : )Cynthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02101983485402171114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-72486386893427262952010-01-13T12:33:11.902-05:002010-01-13T12:33:11.902-05:00Well done... this is almost inspiring me to make m...Well done... this is almost inspiring me to make my own list!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00646114739117986255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-26078031402061455022010-01-13T11:56:19.914-05:002010-01-13T11:56:19.914-05:00This really depressed me for some reason. Thanks...This really depressed me for some reason. Thanks a million sunshine.Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00451562588662320273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-32670449692399287712010-01-13T11:10:39.264-05:002010-01-13T11:10:39.264-05:00Hey Miss M. Just to let you know, you have anothe...Hey Miss M. Just to let you know, you have another Blog Award! :) Please visit http://shellilynn.wordpress.com to view it! <br /><br />Love your blog BTW!!!Shellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10740026350805700767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-29454224049014911172010-01-13T10:27:36.522-05:002010-01-13T10:27:36.522-05:00hm, this sounds like something I'd like to try...hm, this sounds like something I'd like to try.miss. chiefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07640004739888576783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-90159543519478726642010-01-13T10:26:17.903-05:002010-01-13T10:26:17.903-05:00You know what was hard for me to see? That the com...You know what was hard for me to see? That the common denominator in all my problems, whether it be in relationships or otherwise, is me.Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09849761355559443949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6433480315947510138.post-34680135003330768362010-01-13T08:14:23.660-05:002010-01-13T08:14:23.660-05:00Loved the Prince post... yeah, u gotta just do wha...Loved the Prince post... yeah, u gotta just do what suits u and no one else... and if u don't love yourself- it will definitely be obvious to others....question: doesn't it feel good to say or do what comes to mind? how many times have we kicked ourselves for not saying or doing something all because of what was appropriate?Kalei's Best Friendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12331539743751163269noreply@blogger.com